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I just... can't do this anymore

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It's been almost one year and a half since I returned to university. I had to re-take the subjects I failed. There is this one subject I can´t pass and this is my third try. If I fail again this year I'm going to get expelled from the university. I just don´t understand this subject, is very difficult. Maybe I am dumb or something.

I just can't take it anymore, I want to disappear.

I want this to end.

I don't deserve anything.

I'm a failure.

I just want to be free from this.

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Laurennnnnnn

Have you talked to an academic advisor?

Honestly (coming from a teacher’s point of view), if you’re failing for a third time it makes me wonder if something is wrong with the class- not you. You are not dumb.

What class is it?

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Steph2293 in reply to Laurennnnnnn

Securities Law (Stock market)

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JBmom36 in reply to Steph2293

Is there anyone in the class you can pair up with and go over the lessons? Sometimes that helps.

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JBmom36

Try tutoring services or i hate to say it but youtube videos help me at times if I cannot grasp a subject. Sometimes another person can explain it in a way that makes more sense. Hang in there though it can be tough but, worth it in the end.

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Operalady

Hi how are you doing? Yes I seen my son take this math class three times also! What got him to pass was having access to a tutor! Pay for a tutor get this class behind you! Talk to your teacher let him or her know you are trying your best and if they have any advice for you!

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Kainan

Or is there another class you could take as a replacement? Sometimes it might be a good idea if there's a particular hurdle that's giving you trouble

If it makes you feel any better I failed trig twice and the third time I dropped out because I almost got kicked out of my uni. Fast forward to 4 years later, now I'm in nursing school!

I eventually passed, but it was because I found the right teacher and friend who thought trig was the easiest thing and he taught me all of his tricks. Have you used any resources at your college or tutoring by chance or tried to find youtube videos that could help teach you?

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Steph2293

Operalady Hidden Kainan JBmom36 Laurennnnnnn

Thank you all for the support

I looked up for tutoring services and found two good teachers, one of them helped me for my midterm exam and that helped with that task.

But...I'M REALLY MAD!!! The exam was in a team, and we delegated the questions but my partner didn't do some of the questions. I know I can't blame her :(

I hope to pass it! :3

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Laurennnnnnn in reply to Steph2293

Good luck!!! 🤞🤞🤞

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SleepySnow

I’m dealing with a similar situation. I am living in an abusive household and I can’t move out until I graduate. It’s so hard to do cause I keep failing certain classes over and over again and this dread just washes over and consumes all my ability to function efficiently enough to accomplish anything. It’s heartbreaking and defeating to keep being broken down over and over again, especially with a school system that expects us to work through these struggles and still get the grade they expect for us. I myself am still trying how to conquer the dread and not completely destroy my self esteem at any minor failure and it continues to be hard. Practicing self compassion is helping significantly as well as keeping in mind that the education system isn’t working in our favor unfortunately. There is help out there, tutors, YouTube, free classes online taught by professor you maybe vibe with better. You can do it and continue to do it. Be proud of everything you have done so far and understand your hardships and struggles. You are doing the best you can!

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Steph2293

JBmom36 Operalady Kainan Laurennnnnnn Thank you all

I finally passed!

😊

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Laurennnnnnn in reply to Steph2293

This is the best news- congrats!!!! 🥳🥳🥳

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Fatima_sh in reply to Steph2293

Oh my god that’s amazing! I am so happy for you! 🥳 🎉

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