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Hi

This is my first post. My relationship broke down and my heart is broken. I want him back so much. We talk every day. He says it’s over but why keep the contact?

I have suffered a mental health crisis due to the break up. I have never had anxiety like this can anyone help?

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You’re in a good place here, welcome. Everyone is very supportive.

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I’m not sure where else to start I feel I need to reach out to people who don’t no me for a new way of dealing with things.

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That’s a good idea, something new. Keep reaching out, reading other’s posts, and posting if you feel like it. I just joined here 2 days ago. I think we can find a new outlet here.

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Cheetah22

When I was 20 my heart was broken badly for about a year. Thank God! I have an amazing husband now whom I adore and have had for 16 yrs. Thank God for unanswered prayers!

You are not alone.

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Meganhw in reply to Cheetah22

I’m glad you found happiness again. He is everywhere I go I see I love him deeply that just my nature. I can’t even look at another man let alone think of one touching me. It feels like betrayal. My anxiety is so bad I’m struggling so much

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Cheetah22 in reply to Meganhw

The thought of another man will definitely make you ill now. Just try and look after yourself atm as you need that and try and steer clear of your ex. He needs to leave u alone too if thats what he wants. You should see your doctor for the anxiety. Let me know how you get on.

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Meganhw in reply to Cheetah22

I am taking diazepam 3 times a day. My ex won’t leave me alone. He says he wants to still be part of my life. Then he says he doesn’t care but then wants to support me. We can’t stop talking to each he says no going back but why can’t t be break the cycle? I’m not sure what to do. I need a friend

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Cheetah22 in reply to Meganhw

Tell him to frig off. He cant have his cake and eat it. U need to get away from him to get over him. He isn't allowing you to

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Meganhw in reply to Cheetah22

I want to but I’m finding it hard to. He still has lots of his things here. Why would you hold on if you didn’t still have feelings?

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Iammesues in reply to Meganhw

Have you studied the definition of a narcissist? He seems to have those qualities. If you see the definition you can study how to deal with him

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Meganhw in reply to Iammesues

I have looked at and it does seem like he behaves that way. Right now it all feels too much I just want him back. Although I no it’s wrong

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Iammesues in reply to Meganhw

You want HIM or you want a good man?

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Meganhw in reply to Iammesues

I don’t no right now! Does that sound stupid? Everything is shattered!

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Iammesues in reply to Meganhw

I think you want a good man and you’re having a hard time accepting it’s not him... but in your head you know

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Meganhw in reply to Iammesues

he knocked everything from me and blamed me. I don’t think I’ll put my faith in someone else every again the way I have with him

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Iammesues in reply to Meganhw

That’s right. Your too good for him and your too good for many others. Look in the mirror and explain to yourself that due to your intelligence and insight it’s going to be a journey to find the right one. He’s just not on your level of intelligence

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Cheetah22 in reply to Meganhw

Give him all his things back and say bye. He'll be back if it's meant to be. You may be over him by then.

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kfab2015

Hi I can relate. Broke up as I was losing my shit and then had a crisis and was hospitalized because I felt like I ruined everything and the only good thing in my life. We also talk every day but he says it’s over so I think it sounds like your man is confused and cares about you. Remember you need to take care of yourself and your needs. Message me if you want to talk.

If he’s saying it’s over, call his bluff and tell him to get all his things. Tell him you’re going to cut off communication so you can move on. Take your power back! Then see what happens. Sounds like he’s either not sure or just very cruel.

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Sunandrose87

He is weaning himself off you. You need to break off contact so he could go it withdrawals. If you want him back, go no contact. If you want him gone, go no contact

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Shilpa08

Don’t worry we are there

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