Feeling lonely

[Starrlight]

Hi beautiful people. I just thought I’d reach out because I’m feeling alone. No matter who is around me and no matter how much I remind myself of how many I have who love me, I just feel like I’m on my own and life seems too much.

[Aspetta]

Hello and good morning Starrlight!☀☔☕

[Starrlight in reply to Aspetta]

Hi good morning you 😊 🌞 ☀️

[Bears2333]

I feel the same way. I know some of my friends want to see me but my social anxiety has gotten to all time I. So I always feel lonely

[Starrlight in reply to Bears2333]

I hear ya. ((((((((((Hug))))))))

[Hidden]

Hello, I absolutely relate. I'm living with some family now and I still feel as alone as I did when I had my own apartment, a lot of times people are bickering with each other and it seems like I'm miserable no matter what the situation. It's very frustrating .

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

Life is frustrating over here too. Thanks 😊 for responding. Does this sight have you feeling less alone? Sometimes it does for me.

[Hidden in reply to Starrlight]

Sometimes it does help me feel less alone, but I see so many posts of people in despair that it gets to me!!! I think I'm a very empathic person and I try to write helpful and encouraging things to people, but I get overwhelmed by seeing so much sadness and fear and many times I don't know what I can say to be helpful. I feel like I just repeat myself sometimes.

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

Same here. Sometimes all I have in me is to send people a heart to show I care and am listening. Empathetic people are awesome but I know it’s rough at the same time. We have to take care of ourselves first really listening to what we need. Sometimes I can’t hear myself when the world seems so noisy then I know I need to go out into nature or something if I have no energy to go out I meditate.

[Hidden in reply to Starrlight]

Exactly!!!! I feel like I'm so moody and other people can really trigger me. I'm very irritated with my mom right now, she is on the phone constantly and I know she has a right to talk to who she wants to but I can hear everything and I feel like I want to snap at her. I know I have no reason to do that but the feelings are there. Sometimes I like it quiet and other times I like to hear music, but hearing people constantly talking and hearing a blaring television set going on, I don't understand why it bugs me so much but it does.

[Elliott_Woods]

Sorry you are feeling this way 💚 I'm sure it's just a feeling tho, u know? I bet you have people who care and love you. I know it's hard to feel anything but sad emotions when you feel lonely. I definitely can relate. We have to somehow try to find a little bit of happiness in each day. Look forward to the little happy moments, right? 🙂 Who knows? Something amazing could happen for ya today, or even tomorrow. Perk up your beautiful self 💚 you deserve everything great star! Truly. You are a fantastic person 🤗💞

[Starrlight in reply to Elliott_Woods]

YES so true, I will look for bits of happiness in this day. Thank you soooooo my amazing friend!aww thanks for the compliments, you’re helping me to perk up.

[Starrlight in reply to Elliott_Woods]

You know what else? My feelings run so deep I forget that sometimes the things I think to cause the feelings may not be truth.

[Hidden]

Well, your in good company and never alone here. I hope for the few minutes you’re online here you feel less alone.

I hoping you get to feeling better. 🌺💜

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

Thank you sooooo and have amazing moments today my friend!

[Sunnidayz1]

Starr I understand! Btw one can have a million people around them and still feel alone. It's the truth. Just know it's a feeling and it's ok. It's normal to feel like that. It's an emotion. We are emotional beings and that's what we do....human beings...."to be" is to feel emotions.

Love yourself. Value yourself. Forgive yourself. Be yourself. Just be.

Much love,

Sunni☀️❤

[Starrlight in reply to Sunnidayz1]

Thank you soooooo! Yes it is a feeling but I wonder where it stems from you know? I like that- Just Be

Love to you ❤️

[Sunnidayz1 in reply to Starrlight]

Probably childhood but it doesnt matter. We are social beings who want to be loved and be social. It's depression.

[Pearlierae]

I always feel alone too, I’m rarely alone.

I’m sorry

I know your pain.

[Starrlight in reply to Pearlierae]

((((((((((Gigantic hug))))))))))) I’m sorry you feel the same but I really appreciate you and after reading your post I feel less alone. I think my loneliness stems from feeling there’s something wrong with me and that others don’t like me so I feel alienated.

[newbie56]

LOVE = CHILDREN= LOVE

[newbie56]

We must be like children

[Starrlight in reply to newbie56]

I’ve heard that before. I like trying to see through my childrens’ eyes

[Ddorne]

Starrlight, I can understand. It’s ok.