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I’m not sure what to do. I have to make an important, potentially life-altering decision. I know what I want to do and I know what I logically should do, but its not the same. Should I listen to my heart or my head? My heart has been wrong before, so I don’t know if I can trust it. What do I do? I feel so lost and confused and everyone close to me I have asked has told me that’s “my decision” and they can’t make it for me.

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Hello :-)

That is true , no one can tell you what to do as this is your life

I have not looked at your profile or posts other than this one but I feel this could be a relationship tearing you apart

I can only speak from experience if I have guessed right and even though the heart is strong and hurts when it gets broken but heals again the mind is always right if you can find the strength to listen to it :-)

I hope you make the right decision for you as you are the most important person in your life and deserve the best :-)

Take Care x

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I second lulu-1, listen to your head! dont let emotions guide all your decisions, do what is right for you, it may be hard but ultimately it will save a lot of heart ache. from some random internet poster :-)

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rinalpearlman

If it helps you:

"Feel from heart and think with brain"

I dont know what kind of decision it is. But you know that so decide accordingly. If it is about a relationship or feeling go with your heart ;else go with your brain only after storming all choices , possibilities and their repurcussions or benefits.

I hope it helps :)

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