Trying my hardest

[Renaxo]

So I sent a letter to the guy I was “dating” two weeks ago who’s in jail because I wanted to know if he’s okay.. and I still never got a response but I’ve heard through someone else who’s in jail where he is that said that he just added some new numbers to his phone list and not one of them was mines... It hurts my heart and I can’t stop crying because I want to get him out of my mind so badly but it’s so hard because I really did love that man and I’m just trying to make sense of why he ghosted me out of nowhere because it’s really hurting me.. Last time we talked we were on good terms and everything so why just disappear? Like what did I do?

[Downandout123]

What did YOU do?? NOTHING. The question is, what did HE do to land in jail?! I'm not looking for an answer. It doesn't even matter. Consider this a blessing in disguise. Move on gracefully. No need to be in contact with him anymore or try to get him out of jail. YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS!!! Always remember that!

[Sprinkle1]

I say do not waste your time on a scum bag, he was only using you. Move on, get busy in your life, find other bountiful things to do with your life. Reach out and make new friends, talk to us here we offer support and love....Sprinkle 1.....

[Afrohair]

Don’t want to be awful but why waste your time on a man in jail what exactly can he do for you in their

[LSNC]

So, 1st 2nd 3rd, do not date anyone in jail. That, should be the your rule always.

Unless you're in an island with only people in jail, then you must date one of them, just to keep you company for rn, to keep you entertained while you get out of that town..

All relationships are temporary for rn. Until you're solid independent with your emotional state, meaning, if you and your bf break up, you know in your solid mind, that your going to be ok, relationship end sometimes and you grieve a little, got a no more than what the r time you were in a relationship..2nd rule learn to know, really know, positively know for sure, that no matter what happens you're going to be alright.. that is a believe you have to work on everyday, like a muscle, minimum 2 months.

You have the power to feel good, what he did, affects you only up to the degree you let him affects you..

Your actions to what he does, is your decision. Love is a decision, trust is a decision, your decision, if it feels wrong, it's wrong, always trust your gut.

If he didn't like how anymore it's ok, is not a big think, it doesn't like you, that doesn't have anything to do with you, is it was the other way around, that would be ok too.. trust that things happen for your benefit, he doesn't like you bc he is not a good option for you, you always want what's best for you at that time, when you end a relationship is bc you will get better next time, next time is very soon.

Trust that you'll have fun and it'll be awesome for a while, and then it could end but one, remember for#2 and keep on until you find someone that you like better, trust that things happen for your well-being even if it looks the opposite at this particulate time..

I hope you decide to practice these things, your feeling are your responsibility, knowing that had so much power, knowing that with practice you'll learn how to decide to make a different decision, with out great bc no matter what, you are going to be ok.

[English_Patient]

I find there is much respite in letting go, you don't know what's going on in his life and there is a multitude of situations that 'could be'. I wouldn't judge anyone in jail because I am not in possession of all the facts. I have experienced injustice from the court system myself and I doubt I am the first. Not excusing anything but I would leave him to sort himself out and you never know, he may surprise you. All of us make mistakes in our lives and deserve a second chance. Give him time, if not, let go.

[Hidden]

You deserve better.

[Hidden]

He probably start talking to women that is sending him money and will take care of him! Let that loser moved on, because later on you will be thanking God for Unanswered Prayers! You don't need anyone that triggers your anxiety! He is not worth the pain!

[Chancalot]

I can imagine it being hard to accept but somet

[Chancalot]

I was saying that sometimes things happen for the best. You can't read his mind but if you are ever to be with him it will happen in the future. Don't worry yourself about it now. Try to move on with your life.