My boyfriend cheated on me and I am extremely hurt. Please help. I do not know what do to

boyfriend cheated

[gilded_masquerade]

Being cheated on is one of the most painful things I’ve ever experienced, and it’s happened more than I care to admit. Regardless of the reason; cheating is wrong. One of the hardest things I’ve learned from it is that if you give them a slap on the wrist for the initial cheating, they are bound to do it again.

I know you must deeply care about this person, but believe me when I say that you deserve better than how he’s treating you. Don’t allow him to talk you into staying with him, don’t listen to his begging or pleading, you do what’s within your own best interest because at the end of the day; YOU are your longest commitment. If it doesn’t being you happiness; let it go. I’m sorry that you’re going through this and wish nothing but the best for you. Take care xo

[Hidden in reply to gilded_masquerade]

Thank u 😇

[gilded_masquerade in reply to Hidden]

Anytime 🖤

[Mia898]

Sending a big hug . Think of the positives you will get someone better who loves you for you.

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Thank u 😇

[red_door]

I'm so sorry, love. You're so worthy of love. Do what feels right for you. You deserve it.

Chidera Eggerue has some greats books about self-love. This talk of hers below has been particularly helpful for me.

YouTube Search: What a time to be alone! Releasing the fear of being alone. | Chidera Eggerue| TEDxMauerPark

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[Arkus]

I’m so sorry you are in pain over this. I agree with the other comments. He’s done! Be glad you found out before getting married or spending more years with him. Let go and time will lesson the pain. There are lots of great guys so focus on finding a good one and let this loser go. He’s not worth your time.