What I am doing wrong that I still being having a hard to find a boyfriend?

I didn't feel any attracted to any good looking guys after college. guys that i seem to be attracted to are nerds, gamers guys and i am not sure why is take it more long time to find a man that i am attracted to. the guy that i met at McDonalds and I do not think he is looking for a relationship at the time. I had tried dating apps both mainstream dating apps and special learning disability dating apps. hasn't even work out at all. I have been waiting and just very frustrated and annoyed that i can't find any guy at attracted in my town. also already did take a break.

[Rafiki11]

Good looking guys are overrated. Attraction that lasts is based on character instead of outward appearances.

Sometimes a plain looking nerd will treat you better than a good looking jock.

[hypercat54]

You seem to be quite obsessed with trying to find a bf and I reckon you might come over as much too intense which will scare any potential ones off.

I know you probably won't follow my advice but I suggest you stop looking so hard and concentrate on enjoying your life. It's when you stop searching that you tend to find that special someone.

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

that always had be my issue because i too good looking and get creeps a lot time . it was always the good looking guys that are very much creep and also has a learning disability and only date guys with a learning disability that is one rule that my mum put it or never date .

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

Well why do the 'creeps' matter so much? Just say no and move away. All women get this sometimes and the better looking ones get it more. You need to learn to deal with this and not get so worked up.

I was out last night with friends and this old geezer chatted me up. No way was I interested but I just said thank you for the compliments and when he asked for a kiss I laughed and said no thanks and walked away.

Maybe ask your mum how you should deal with this if you don't know?

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

My mum doesn't know much about i always has creeps

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

I think you are saying you won't tell your mother? There must be a female somewhere in your life you can get some advice from. Ask them how to deal with creeps chatting you up and they will be able to give you some ideas based on their own experiences.

[Blueruth]

I’d rethink those nerds! Not sure about gamer dudes. Nerds will solve climate change!

[Hidden in reply to Blueruth]

I can't even find them to begin with .

[Blueruth in reply to Hidden]

Oh I read it in reverse! Have you tried meetups? Not those ginormous party ones. Hiking or Board games or some other interesting one. Board games are popular now but idk about your age group. Then just have fun.

[Hidden in reply to Blueruth]

I am around 23 and none of 20 are very immature but i do not want to go to older that is pass 30 .

[Blueruth in reply to Hidden]

If you mix with a variety of people don’t get too stuck on age.

[Shezza1]

The word of Phil Collins song spring into my mind when I'm feeling lonley

You cant hurry love

You just have to wait

Love dont come easy.

It's a game of give and take.

Just go with the flow. You'll soon find your knight in shining armour. Good luck

[001romero]

Trying too hard that’s all enjoy life have fun don’t look for a boyfriend have friends and go out

[Midori]

I think you sound desperate and are probably trying far too hard. Keep off dating sites; they are full of good looking, empty hearted men.

Go out just to go out, the right guy will find you; but don't rush at it. It isn't like going to a store and picking one, There has to be mutual attraction and a meeting of minds.

[Hidden in reply to Midori]

why assuming i you think that i am desperate when i not

[Midori in reply to Hidden]

It is what the way you write about it that makes me think that. If I am wrong, I apologise.

[Hidden in reply to Midori]

very much rude to a learning disability women . you can't just assume my writing not cool . very must bad impressed

[Tara52]

Don't look for a man let him look for you!😘