My moms boyfriend

[Ariannanic]

So my dad killed himself on december 3 2015 right in front of me and my brother. Ever sence then my mom has been through 8 boyfriends!!! 2 of them were okay but the one she has now idek whare to start. He always makes fun of me about everything but when my moms around he is a "perfect angel". He maked me do all the work around the house like im a maid. And he makes my mom pay for everything including the bills. Today he called himself ny father and then made fun of my anxiety and said "hey look im anna and i have fake anxiety. Oh i fake this "anxiety" for attention"! Im so sick and tired of it but my mom and him are to lovey dovey. They cant be apart for more than a minute. I dont remember thr last time i actually talked to my mom. Unless shes yelling at me. And i cant take it anymore. He and his very aggresive boys (10 and 12 years old) are the reason we have no money and can only afford 1 meal a day if that. I just dont know if i can take it anymore.

[GmaLuLu]

Bless your heart, I am so sorry you are going through this. My dad died in front of me too, 35 years ago so I know what you're going through there. My mom had several true "duds" for a very long time. She had one that was 20 years younger than her (my little brother's age!) and she kicked me and my then two year old son out of my daddy's house so that she and her young boyfriend could have some space. My son is now 30 years old and I still remember that vividly. I wish I knew the right words to say to help you! Just know "this too shall pass" - and breathe. If you can, get by yourself somewhere and just breathe. I have to do that a lot, and I'm an old grandma now. I've had anxiety since I was a teenager. Stay strong, better days are ahead.

[hypercat54]

Are you of an age to leave home yet?

[sweetiepye]

I am sorry about all of the perfectly awful things that have happened to you. I had a few similar experiences in my life , It started with my Fathers death in an automobile accident and my Mother being married to a couple of idiots during my growing up years. If you can stick it out until you are of age and make plans

to leave as soon as you are able , it will help you get through daily life. At some point your Mother may come to her senses and realize what she is doing . She is probably

so afraid of being alone that anyone will do. Do you have anyone else you could live with ? Grand parents, Aunts or someone from your Father's family ? Let us know how things are working out for you. It's what we do on here, we try to take care of each other and it really helps. Stay strong and safe. Pam

[shiney68]

sweetie Iam so sorry you need to go to social services and tell someone what is happening . You mom has obviously got her priorties messed up Her boyfriend shouldn't be acting the way he is . Youll be safer away from the situation, you need to take care of you and if you feel like theres a problem then to you there is. And the guy shouldn't be living off your mom or making fun of you emotional conditions that shows ignorance on his part. Hope you can get someone to a least listen to you.