As if it’s really a surprise that. with all my issues, I’m the clingy one of my relationship.
This morning I woke up to text my boyfriend good morning before he got ready to go to work, like I always do. Are usually get a response of a good morning and then he’ll get ready and text me when he gets there. He didn’t text me once so I continued to text him in panic and being concerned. And he got frustrated with me and said “I love you baby I really do but the overreacting and the clinginess can be suffocating at times, I need you to ease off it a bit”.
And this is because I’m a worry-wart, as my mom says. I worry and overthink and he’s not wrong. But like I don’t know how to act now. I feel like I have to show my love for him less and not talk to him and just leave him alone. Like I feel like I need to make myself distant.
I’m so worked up about this because that’s what left me with no one in my life before him. I because distant because people felt I was overbearing or overwhelming. I just love too much and I’m insecure and I’m the exact explanation for what causes clinginess.
I just. How do I even back off with that stuff but still show him I love him and care about him? How do I find the balance? Cause I feel like I’m incapable of that and I need to be alone if i can’t.
What do I even do?