Worthless

[Cam49]

As if I wasn’t already feeling bad, my husband has decided I’m wrong to not let his brother use our property for hay for free. Don’t get me wrong; I like my brother in law. I don’t mind helping family. But it’s his wife that annoys me. She is two faced, paranoid, and conceited. She makes it hard to have a good relationship with them. So, I decided not to go to their house anymore. As you all know, I have GAD. It’s better for me to not put myself around negativity. Long story short, my husband is mad at me for all this. I feel betrayed. My husband and I discussed long ago how we wanted to put the land to work for us. We can’t if we are giving it to use for free. Besides, I felt a thank you from them was expected but never happened.

I don’t understand. All I know is my husband stopped by to visit them and came home with a different attitude. I guess he felt guilty after hearing what they had to say. I am so sad and I feel like my husband is untrustworthy. He knows I’m trying to really think things over before I make judgements. I felt I was doing pretty good in my efforts. Help.

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It sounds like the Wife is a controller, (narcissist), Ask what has been said and nip this problem in the bud, This can be a real problem and you need to know what has gone on

BOB

[Sprinkle1]

Stick to your guns. Go and talk to a therapist for your sake, then get your husband to join you, he seems like he has some lessons to learn, don't let him bully you. I wish you well, sending peace, strength, love and hugs....Sprinkle 1.....