hurt... :/

[annadeleon]

For the last 7 years, my dad has been coming when I have the weekends with him which is each 2 weeks. The only time I have with him is 1 day and 4 hours he lives 10 hours away from me. And he has the audacity to go with his friends and play pool when he leaves me in the house. Even though it's only one hour he is gone, I still miss him because I want to cherish every single second of his voice, his smile, and his comfort. But he doesn't understand how hurt I am when he is gone and I'm not in his arms. And I'm grown up, but I will always want to be his little girl. Because what happens when one day or minute he is gone forever and we didn't have as many moments as we should have had. So if you have something similar then send me a message and we can try to improve the situation together.

[LadyZen]

My daughter went through that with her father. She stopped staying over on the weekends because of that and only sees him for dinners.

[Sprinkle1]

Can you sit down with him and tell him how you feel? Perhaps you could go with him to the pool hall and watch the game. I wish you well, sending love/hugs..Sprinkle 1.......

[annadeleon in reply to Sprinkle1]

I did yet he still doesn't understand, he says that one day I'm going to tell my kids I need time for myself, but I know how it feels like so I'm not going to make the same mistake as my dad did.