It's been a while..

[Findingstrength]

Hi guys. I know it's been a while. I've moved. May have to do it again after the 1st. of the year.. It would be for work.

My love life, if you can call it that is pretty much over.

I'm so attatched to my boyfriends family, I don't know if I can break up with him, when, I know I should. He's been emailing and texting other women, telling them he's single and looking for a live in girlfriend.

I've been trying to break up with him, but, there have been family issues that come up and I don't want to add to the pain.

It's been a major source of anxiety for me.. I don't know what to do.

[rainydays04]

Follow your gut. If you can’t forgive him and he isn’t at all remorseful and wanting to change then you can’t justify staying. You deserve better.

If you can forgive and he wants to change, stay. Give yourself a few months to work things out. See a counsellor together and plan nice dates once a week to reconnect.

This is a horrible situation and I hope, whatever the outcome, you feel happy in the long run! Best of luck!

[gerrerd]

Find some one who has a good heart ! with people watch what they doo not what they say ! your boyfriends actions tell you everything ! the rest is up to you ! you can still be friends to his family without him ! xx