Why me god???

[Hiddensou]

Why I'm being judged always for being overweight eventhough I've got some good qualities??? This depresses me a lot I need help

[Mary-intussuception]

I doubt you are the only one who feels like this (but why should we).

Are you really being judged because of your size? If so it's those who are doing the judging who are at fault, not you.

Why can't they mind their own business?

I am now over 4 stone overweight ( was 5st) due to medical neglect .

I only lost stone because of a serious gastric bug.

I was left undiagnosed and untreated with Thyroid problems with caused the weight gain over years of ill-health. Plus lots of damage throughout my body.

Problem is, the weight just doesn't disappear once treatment is started. Treatment just keeps you alive, isn't a cure.

I would say -

Don't let what other people think bother you. Be at peace with yourself and when comments or glances/stares start to upset you -

just remind yourself of how truly

Precious and Beautiful you are.

🌹🌹🌹

♡

xXx

[Hiddensou in reply to Mary-intussuception]

Thanks alot..

[kenster1]

hi be your own judge its your body after all as Ive said before its whats on the inside that matters most.

[Byelka]

It's important that you see your good qualities and do what you can to embrace them. Write them down, share them here, find hobbies or work that allows you to use them. People get stuck in judgement because of their own ignorance and influence from society, but that's not on you. It can be helpful to be part of a community either online or otherwise of people who are frustrated by weight shaming. You're definitely not alone.

[Hidden]

Your weight does not define you, who you are as a person does. The right people will see that because they are not petty or vain. Unfortunately, the world can be a cruel place, but that does not mean you're not worth getting to know. However, when we feel bad about ourselves, it's easy to seem undesirable to others.

Make a list of all your positive attributes and the things you value about yourself. Really look it over and start loving the person you see behind the body. I am sure there's a lot about you to love, so don't be shy showing that to others.

[Hidden]

I am overweight too and I used to be hot!! Things change. I'm a better person now. I bet you are the only one judging you.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

You don't have to be thin to be hot You're a beautiful person to me from all the things you've posted and that alone makes people attractive. Your personality is far more important!

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. I could be hot again. I have kinda let myself go but I'm working on it.

You are so sweet. Thanks for making me smile. 😋

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

It happens to the best of us, but I've met people who just shine when they talk. I often don't even pay attention to their looks, but I know it's not easy when we're hard on ourselves!

A..good. I am glad I could do that for you!

[momofjust2boys]

I'm sorry you are being judged at all-that's not our role here on earth, but it's easy to pass judgment. You have so much value, so much worth in this world! Have you considered changing your circle? Maybe joining some new activities or groups, or even volunteering? I did this and found a whole new group of people who are supportive and encouraging. Please post back and let us know what you decide to do.