Im so hurt right now.. It took me some time to try and breath them mustard up some words insteads bumbling sounds of a crazy lady..
My soon to be sister n law.. Thought im assuming that she would be in the running for parent of the year to talk abt me loosing my grandbaby in front of her 6 year old that loves to repeat what mami says..
After hearing what he said then asking him to repeat him self i died a lil bit more. Just.. Took me right back to square one. Rocked my world. How could a mother be so insensitive. Im really hard on my self and dont need any help in that department. Its hard enough
Smh. Its 5am I've been just staring at the wall dor the last 7 hours. Not sure where to go from here part of me wants to drag her ass through the city stark naked with a clown hat on (exhales). The nerve. Welp
work in a few hours so goodnight/goodmorning everyone.
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So sorry to hear how bad you are feeling right now. The loss of your grandbaby must be devastating. I fully understand your anger but I guess she did what she did by accident and would perhaps be really upset if she knew how much she hurt you. Most of us have said or done something insensitive that we deeply regret at times.
Ok.. Now the child is an in law and had no knowledge at that time. If im saying in was meant to be nasty, why would you go against that. You kno nothing abt my situation. Sounds like you didn't read the post fully or understood it anywho.. This is my vent and i only post to vent. Not to debate in whats going on in my life.. If im not being to blunt by saying stay in your own lane please and thank you
I replied with honesty with a genuine desire to help. I would remind you that no one has to reply to others but without those like me who do there wouldn't be a site at all. I have my own issues which is why I am here and don't need to be treated like this. I will take off my replies and steer well clear of you in the future.
This reafirms my previous decision to steer clear of new people until I have sussed out they are ok. But being attacked isn't part of my game plan and if others experience this new people will suffer coz they will get fewer responses.
Im sorry i never ask anyone to judge my situation. Nobody should read a post on this kinda site and start a reply back with "well to be honest i think that". Remember the post said when people help.
Thanks but that's not the kinda help im looking for.
I am NEVER going to reply to new members again! You have upset me greatly and I am not feeling too good at the moment. I don't need all this. Go away and leave me alone. I will not respond to you ever again.
I'm really sorry that someone opted to talk about your situation, especially in front of their child. That seems rather cruel and even unfair to the child to know inner-family issues. While I can absolutely empathize with your thoughts of wanting some sort of revenge, I don't think it will help quell what truly hurts which is what happened. If possible, maybe find a good time to approach her when you've cooled down a bit. "Look, little Billy mentioned this the other day when he saw me. This is a source of pain and suffering for my family and I, one that is going to include you eventually. Could you please refrain from bringing this up?"
Handling this on a high note might be for the best...really...as much as you would like to bring down the house on her. I'm sorry that her words, especially known only through her child, have brought back reliving the pain and suffering of a grandchild lost. It is an ugly and vile comment that shouldn't have a place as it seems like none of their business. You can let her know this without making things just as ugly. Perhaps you'll get an explanation or an apology once context is explained. I tend to think the more calm and composed we handle things, sans emotions (and trust me, I get every reason you have to be emotional on this), the better the outcome. This especially for you when she turns pale hearing her words made it into the metaphorical wind. I wish you the best in whatever you decide and I am very sorry to hear that you had to relive a difficult and sad moment in your life.
Wanting to drag her was just an emotion I try not to make decisions while im emotional but it seems like thats all I've been latley. I may be over thinking things. Good idea i will bring it up after things cool down. Hopefull it will clear things up cause it cut me deep.
Idk, my first session start mid week.
Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate it.
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post 5: the senstive people 
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