HU and Gossip

Gossip has made its way around HU about me because of another person. So sad. 😔 I will be leaving HU for good.

[kenster1]

hi sorry to hear that not nice if true but you deserve support like everyone else even on here but as always peoples choices in leaving is always respected.

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Name the person who is doing it if you know who it is.

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Sorry to hear that ..You should report it

[Agora1]

joyready, I am so sorry to hear you will be leaving. It is very sad when something

happens on the forum that makes others lose trust in this site. I've always promoted

that this is a nonjudgmental as well as safe place to come to when in need.

As people do come and go on this site, think about staying in the background and let

some time go by and if you feel the same, then of course it is your decision.

Wishing you healing thoughts. xx

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What? I never heard anything.

[Joanne1972]

I've not heard any gossip about you either, I think most people (hopefully) can see thru gossip and take it with a pinch of salt as most gossip isn't the full picture of whatever's going on.

I'm not keen on gossipers, they only seam to portray something from their point of view about someone else and I imagine add some drama to the story or cherry pic dramatic points. I don't know what the reasons are some people like to gossip or interfere in someone else's business.

Hopefully on here, we come here for support, we post very personal things that are going on and ask others who may be sympathetic to our post to reply. To help. Not to gossip about us to other people.

I think you should stay, people most likely judging the gossiper and not you

Jo X

[Want2BHappy3]

What is HU?

[Hidden in reply to Want2BHappy3]

Health unlocked

[Want2BHappy3 in reply to Want2BHappy3]

Oh, I haven't read any gossip, I normally answer a couple of emails on this site and that's it. Just like Facebook there's just a lot of gossip there too. I usually write a Happy Birthday message. People put TOO much personal stuff out there.

[Dolphin14]

I just joined. Now I'm a little concerned about privacy. Can you share how you found out about this? Through posting or private messages? I agree with the others comments.

This is supposed to be a safe private place to share. I'm sorry this happened. I would encourage you to stay. Don't feed into the drama.

[anxietyforlife2018]

I haven’t seen or read any gossip. I am here though if you need me, just message me, I will help you the best I can.

Sincerely,

Anxietyforlife2018, DNP, MHNP-BC, FNP-BC, AGNP-BC, TNP-BC

[Mansiongirlie]

Sad to read this, why should you have to leave because of someones shitty behaviour? it should be them who should have to leave not you. I hate gossip as its so 1 sided and unnecessary, there's enough bad in the world without people making it worse and spreading negativity. When I temporarily separated from my husband last year this woman who we thought was a friend gossiped and I called them out on it, they denied it but what they didn't know is I'd already screenshotted what they'd said. I think this woman didnt exactly have much going on in her life or the best marriage so probably didnt want others to be happy either, I'll never know what her game was but I do know it backfired on her as I dont consider her a friend anymore, and I never will, and my husband and I are back together. ❤️

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Yes gossip such a hurtful thing..

Wish people would pay attention to their own lives more..my neighbours are awful for it 😩

Take care xx

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Sad to hear this as this should be a safe place for all to disclose and not have the fear of anyone spreading business...truth or lies. Nothing should leave the boards. As Mansiongirlie mentions, I would hope this person would be removed without a word and not you having to resign. I would hope any further issues regarding this would be handled by HealthUnlocked. I know we can't necessarily control what is said off of here, but there's no room or necessity for negativity here. Just kind words, advice, and resounding support for one another....we should understand each other better than most and that includes trust. I am sorry to hear of this and hope maybe a short break will have you returning. Take care for now and hope to see a return one day.