Truth ..

So I’ve known for a long time I’m a fn loser. I was one in high school.

I don’t have real friends I learned. What does that say about me?

Now I don’t have any friends at all. Lol.

History does have a way of repeating itself. Lol

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You learned what exactly?

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Thatvim a fucking loser.

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Before and now and that history does repeat itself

[lillyofthevalley37]

I wouldn't judge you harshly bc you have no friends it could mean you are a really nice person

People are judgmental and it's a cruel world

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You mean you where a loser then and you are a loser now?

I bet there are a lot of really good things about you,I bet you are actually really nice and interesting, you just have low self esteem maybe?

As for having no friends, it doesn't mean you are a loser, maybe you just outgrew them, you can find more. I use to have loads of friends but I don't really have any now, I have accepted it and got on with life, I'm happy.

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Lol. Your just nice. So you don’t think people who have no real friends are losers? I think it’s weird. And clearly people can see how ducked I am all my life lol.

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Nope I don't think people who have no friends are losers. I think circumstances can make people me up with no friends but I didn't make them losers. I doubt very much you have become friendless on purpose, so it's not your fault.

I'm just nice, but so are you, even if you can not see it for yourself. 😊

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i understand that some people have no friends because people move on or change. I mostly, had lots of friends and found very similar qualities in them; they were only my friend for something and I never really had friends lol

thanks for the reply, your very warm

[Joanne1972]

I don't think you are a loser either. I don't really have any friends. I quite like being by myself although I do have pets so I don't feel alone. I find it peaceful and quite nice sitting back from the world. You can learn a lot from sitting back and observing others.

I think some people are ok with being alone, or having people come n go in their lives....they aren't losers

I think after a time without friends when someone does come along that you like and likes you in return it will be extra special as you've had time to contemplate relationships, friendships.

Most people viewing you wouldn't know how many friends you have, there's lots of reasons one could not have friends, moving to a new place, outgrowing friendships, divorce, falling out. All pretty normal things to happen on life's journey.

You can still have an enriched life doing things you enjoy by yourself....you may meet like minded people who may or may not become a friend....ok either way as you are doing things you enjoy.

If you think what you picture doing with a friend if you had one, could you do that anyway, you can have a gossip on here, you can go to places, coffee shops, out for lunch by yourself....no one will know you don't have friends....there could be a hundred reasons why you are eating, drinking, coffee, at the cinema by yourself that day

Jo

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thx Jo. i hope your day is filled with light. Thanks for the reply