HOMESICK

[REALFARRU]

SHIT THIS FEELING I NEED A BREAK OF THIS LIFE I WANT TO GO HOME HOMESICK...

[Stilltrying_]

Hi I'm sorry you are feeling so down. I have read your previous posts. Is there any way you can arrange to go home after a certain period of time as I don't think you are happy at all where you are. I hope you can get home soon. Gemma

[REALFARRU in reply to Stilltrying_]

yes ill try to be live here happily but its not easy i am coming first time out of my country and nobody is here for me ...

[Agora1]

FARRU, I feel your heart breaking for your home. As "Stilltrying" suggested, is there

a way you can go home every so often? You've done so well in getting where you are

at. I hate seeing you so distressed and upset. You may have to ask yourself if the

pay increase is worth your emotional and physical health. Money pays the bills but

you can't buy your health. I wish I knew an easy answer my friend. xx

[REALFARRU in reply to Agora1]

actually i am very confused because this is a big opportunity for me but i feel not well here i try to be adjust here but its very tough and nobody is there for me who i talk and language is also different i am totally confused and homesickk

[Agora1 in reply to REALFARRU]

FARRU, I just read your response to "Stilltrying" in that this is your first time out of

your country plus the fact that the language is different. I know how confused and

homesick you are and that you must feel totally lost at this point.

I know you are a strong person with a passion for your work. But I also know the

passion and love you have for your country.

Of course, only you can make the decision for your future. However, if I were you,

I would give myself a little time to adjust and really think about "big opportunity"

versus "your unhappiness". If you don't give yourself some time you will always

wonder what might have been. Keep using the forum for support. When you feel

the time is right, you will make a decision with no regrets. xx

[REALFARRU in reply to Agora1]

yes this is a very big opportunity and i try my best sometimes its very difficult to control the situation but i am never give up at all and one day i am back to home soon... heartly thanks to u ...

[Agora1 in reply to REALFARRU]

FARRU, I give you credit in making a difficult decision and never willing

to give up. Wishing you strength in getting through this opportunity until

you are once again back home with your family and friends. I'm proud of you.

Stay in touch with your friends here on the forum, it will help you know that

you are not alone. Take care of yourself xx

[REALFARRU in reply to Agora1]

thanks a very very lot i dont know who r u & where from u but i know one thing u r very brave person thank u friend ..... with me .

[Agora1 in reply to REALFARRU]

Hi FARRU, I am your friend from Chicago. The first time you came on the

forum, you showed me beautiful pictures of your country. I saw how happy

you were and wasn't surprised when you were able to overcome your anxiety

within a short time. That brave person in you still exists and will be what will

carry you through. Stay positive, stay strong and believe in yourself.

You can do this. xx

[REALFARRU in reply to Agora1]

thanks friend i am from india u know anything about india ?

[Agora1 in reply to REALFARRU]

FARRU, Many of us do not know the beauty of the countries throughout

the world. We don't see what you see and miss. If it helps you to share

you being homesick, by all means we are here to learn. I hope each day

finds you adjusting a little better. xx

[REALFARRU in reply to Agora1]

ok one of the seven wonders of the world in india THE TAJ MAHAL .

[Agora1 in reply to REALFARRU]

I had forgotten FARRU, "THE TAJ MAHAL" wow.

Thank you for sharing this with us. xx