Recently I met a person who is quite a nice guy and so full of life. He’s very involved socially and is always on the go enjoying life. He’s a fantastic person that I find absolutely fascinating.
Our conversations have been great. There’s a lot we have in common... such as a like for animals, movies, and other various things.
I’ve told him I’m in a primary relationship of 25 years and he’s single. We’re both fine with that. It’s all strictly platonic.
Now comes the scary part. He’s shared so much with me what he’s done and what he’s accomplished in life. I just sit back and listen... I’m a good listener. In our conversation I did mention that I battle with depression, yet I’m on medication that helps. Even scarier he asks what do I enjoy doing in life? The truth is that I feel like I’m existing and not living. But I don’t want to tell him that because I don’t want to bring a pity party into a potentially good friendship. So I just said, “Well, I just take each day as it comes.” There’s a lot of emotional pain in my life and I just don’t want to dump that on him.
Anyway, I get scared when I meet very active people and when they’re curious as to what I do for fun in life. I’m too terrified to tell the truth: I exist and I’m bored and I live in a lot of fear and so on.
Anyone else out there that has encountered something like this? I just don’t want to feel alone in this challenging matter.