Hopeless

[parksjami]

It's been sinking in a for a while now that my boyfriend and I are barely making ends meet. I had a good job, that I lost due to unforeseen circumstances, and ever since then its been a struggle. I am working a part-time job right now that is an easy job and I know the people I work with, but the hours and money aren't cutting it. I've placed the burden on my boyfriend since he makes more money and I hate myself for that. I'm going to have to find a 2nd job and work myself to death just to survive. And with my health issues, I'm just crumbling under this weight.

[Kat63]

Don’t think that this situation will stay bad forever. It’s possible that you could find a new (good) job.

Things always change; no situation goes on forever.

[parksjami in reply to Kat63]

Thank you. It means a lot that you responded with such encouraging words.

[hypercat54]

Yes it can be very hard can't it. I always had to work full time to support myself suffering from depression which as you know can be very difficult.

I stayed at my last job for over 5 years and hated every day. I had no choice if I wanted to become solvent again but it took a lasting toll of my health.

You say you are barely making ends meet? Well you are still ahead of the game. There must be things you can cut down on if you have to for example going out for meals and even coffee. Walking when you can to save transport costs is another one.

Ok it's not easy or fun but doable. Buy own brands of food as they are cheaper and are often just as good. I am not sure what country you are in but I am in the UK and find charity shops great and I get most of my clothes there.

I wish you all the best. x

[parksjami in reply to hypercat54]

It is very hard, but you're right. I will have to cut costs down on some things. I'm trying to make the best of working with depression, anxiety, and chronic pain. I need to find insurance so I can get proper help for all.