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I REALLY NEED HELP! URGENT!

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I have not been posting for some time. I am in a situation that is going to kill me. I am a Canadian veteran being held in the Dominican Republic and denied the right to return to Canada! I was been stopped at the airport and told there was a civil matter I know nothing much about. I was not arrested just denied onto my flight back to Canada. I tried to get help from my Embassy and was told they could not help me! They abandoned me and won't even represent me. I am not a criminal! I did nothing wrong! No one will help me. My mental health issues are now overwhelming and suicidal thoughts are happening. I don't know how long I can hold on! This is a bloody nightmare.

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-Sasha- profile image
-Sasha-

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I can only imagine how overwhelming and scary your situation must be. Maybe give yourself a chance to calm down and gather your thoughts. There's gotta be somebody that can give you more information, unfortunately sometimes you have to harass, bitch, etc. to finally get someone to tell you what's going on. I know I'm no help as far as getting you back to Canada but if you need to vent or anything know that someone is here to listen.

~S~

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Kiltyman in reply to -Sasha-

Thank you. It is just so hard to understand why my own country would not step in and offer assistance. I always thought a person could rely on their Embassy to help in difficult situations like this. Apparently not my countries Embassy

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-Sasha- in reply to Kiltyman

Yea that would frustrate the hell out of me too. Do u have any family or friends that can help? Maybe making some phone calls on your behalf and try to help find out what's going on? I know dealing with all this must be difficult to do when those thoughts are constantly running through your head. If the thoughts start to become too much, vent away on here. If there's one thing we can help you with on here is making sure you don't feel alone.

~S~

Did this happen today?

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Marshall64

Is this a scam? I have gotten emails that were like this saying that someone was stuck in another country and needed money to get home.

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You could be right.

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I'm not asking anyone for 1 cent!

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Kiltyman in reply to Marshall64

This is no scam! I'm not looking for money. Read my history before you jump to conclusions please!

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Kiltyman in reply to Marshall64

You don't know me and I don't know you. If you have nothing constructive to say them say nothing! Your insinuation based on your personal experiences does not sit well when you fail to investigate before sounding off. Accusations without facts are nothing but verbal diarrhea!

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TriggerPoint

"Suicidal Thoughts" ? Why ? You Got This. It's Awful This Happened To You. But I'd Be More Pissed Than Anything Else ! I'd Want My Name CLEARED No Matter What It Takes ! Don't Be Deceived With Suicidal Thoughts....Turn That Frustration Into Determination. Is There No One You Can Call Back In Canada That Knows An Attorney ? or/ Somebody That Can Help ?

Prayers For Ya~* You Hang In There.....

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Kiltyman in reply to TriggerPoint

Thank you. You're right and I will do everything to make the guilty pay! Even if I have to shame my own government!

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Kiltyman

Sorry I wanted to reply but didn’t know what to say except well wishes

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Kiltyman in reply to Sillysausage234

Thanks Alan. Prayers will give me strength to deal with the emotions and the situation.

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Kiltyman

It sounds complicated hope you sort things out 🤞

in reply to Kiltyman

Not a good idea - confrontation will make you worse. Expect you can find a forum on financial investments which have failed and how others have been affected. Personally we invested in a company which did warn that investments can go down as well as up.

We wanted to invest in an ethical company but found the company had invested in tobacco shares. We had to pull out of the investment as they never gave information on tax for the proposed high dividend. We had to pay a large sum to extricate ourselves from this investment company and this was a penalty. They just paid out a sum of money when the investments were going down. We were being repaid our money monthly with no profits. I don't know if this was a scam but it is hard to fight a claim on foreign soil with so many hidden, links. We cut our losses and don't go near investments any more.

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