Hey there...

[Lu2356]

It’s been a while. I have been alone and sad. I don’t want to dwell on it. My anxiety comes more from either my hormones, lack of sex, and just feeling love and support from my husband. I have asked him to go to marriage counseling and he has always refused. I am thinking it’s just best we separate...

[Celtic27]

Hi lu sorry to hear that things have come to this! Has your husband said why he won't go I would have thought he would try to save his marriage I presume you've been married for some time! Giving him a ultimatum maybe it will help but I doubt it your maybe better off starting a fresh and find some who understands you and will be there for you no matter what! I wish you well and I hope everything works its way out! 👍

[Lu2356 in reply to Celtic27]

We have been together for 12 years. He didn’t even bother getting me something for Valentine’s Day. Not even a hug or kiss.

[Celtic27 in reply to Lu2356]

I'm sorry to see how heartless he is being you seem to be the only one trying to save what's left but as i said before you will need to think of you own sanity and take a good look at wither there's anything worth saving please think of your self first!

[foxglove_pnw]

Hi Lu , we can only control ourselves ! If he doesn’t want to go ...go alone ! Take care of yourself !

I am so sorry about your marriage ! I don’t know how long you have been married and why things are not working but make yourself a priority !

Through therapy you can try to find tools to improve your marriage and also figure out if it is worth staying or not !

Good luck ! 🌺🌸🌼

[Lu2356 in reply to foxglove_pnw]

He just doesn’t think we need therapy. I have been to counseling 3 times without him. I have just tried too much and burnt out.

[foxglove_pnw in reply to Lu2356]

I am so sorry !!

Divorce is never easy , specially if you have kids. Staying in an unhealthy marriage is also very hard !

Only you can answer that ! Each marriage is unique !

Good luck !

[Sad_Sausan]

I can relate. I was going through a really rough time, on the edge of life. My gf who I lived with at the time stopped caring, acting shady and distant. I came home one day after work, she hardly looked at me and didn't say anything. She knew what I was going through and didn't care to just hug me.

That's when I left, I knew if I stayed there, I would die. Its terrible to feel the way you do and your partner... the one whose supposed to be there for.... isn't. You deserve support and love..