struggling! am new here

[TNN10]

Recently things haven’t been working out for me .I feel that everything that mattered has just disappeared and I can no longer get what I want like am used to. Life is becoming more and more challenging and I cant keep up. I just don’t know who to turn to because everyone thinks that is is the perfect girl that is living this perfect life ..am being judged by the life am living not what am feeling.. they don’t know how many times I cry at night just to keep up with the current world how much I sacrifice to be seen as the perfect girl…. They don’t know how hard it is to live a lie …am just tired of everything ..tired that I cant turn to anyone in the time of need.. tired that I cant live a simple life…the feeling is just killing me from inside everyday it kills a part of me that I can resurrect..please help me what am I supposed to do

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[Concernedparent23]

You don’t have to be perfect. No one does.

You are enough just as you are x

[TNN10 in reply to Concernedparent23]

concerned parents what an i supposed to do so that i can manage the pressure and be normal ?

[Concernedparent23 in reply to TNN10]

You sound really overwhelmed.

I’m glad you’ve found this site.

There are lots of people here who have been through similar situations.

None of us can really tell you what to do though. We can listen and we can relate and we can suggest what helped us.

We can reassure you that it is ok not to feel ok all the time.

Can you tell us a bit more about your situation and about these pressures you’re feeling?