Ain't got much left.

[HeyItsThatKidd]

I'm waking up into anxiety attacks, Idk how much longer me or my family will be safe. I don't know what's left to do.

[kenster1]

hi im sorry that things have been tough on you the last couple of years going back through your posts.in terms of being safe what do you mean.are you in danger.

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to kenster1]

It is possible

[kenster1 in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

I don't really know what to say but if you told us then we could offer advice in the matter.if your feeling in danger and your family is it not better to phone the police or the appropriate people.

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to kenster1]

It's not that simple

[kenster1]

here to help but its difficult if we don't know whats up.

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to kenster1]

It's my moms ex boyfriend... We don't know what he might do...He's not right...

[TriggerPoint in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

If It's Your Mom's EX. I Take It He Doesn't Live There I Hope. or/ How Can He Be An EX ? Do YOU Live With Your Mother ? What Threats Has This Man Made That Would Make You Fear For Your Life ?*

If I May Ask....

Prayers For Ya ~*

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to TriggerPoint]

Look at my post, "Not sure how long I'll be here", it explains what I went through and some insight to where I'm at now.

[kenster1 in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

just make sure your family are in a safe environment make sure someone knows of your fears just in case.i take it the police know then about this guy.i said to someone a couple of days ago in the uk its called an interdict meaning if they approach your family in any way they can be remanded in police custody.

[Hopeful62 in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

Are you thinking of hurting yourself? Are you afraid someone will hurt you?

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to Hopeful62]

Afraid someone will hurt me

[Hopeful62 in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

Can you get yourself to a safe place? Go there.

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to Hopeful62]

But what am I supposed to do about my mother's safety? My grandparents tell me I have to stay there with my mom

[Hopeful62 in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

There is a rule in airline safety emergency situations. We are told to put on our own masks before we assist anyone else. You see if you don’t take care of you first, you can’t help your mother or anyone else. To put it plainly, call the police. Tell them you are being menaced and you are afraid for yourself and your mother. It be Christmas Eve, but most states have domestic violence laws that will protect you and your mom until the courts open again Wednesday. It takes grit to make that call. Find yourself some grit, make the call.

[kenster1 in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

don't be living in fear if you have justifiable cause then call the police.

[TheGirlWithGlasses]

Can you please just listen to the advices that you're getting

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to TheGirlWithGlasses]

I'm trying to...

[Agora1]

Hey Kidd, your mom's ex is still in the picture? I can't believe you have

been able to live in this state of fear for so long. I was hoping you were

staying with your grandmother. What about your brother? Is he with

your mom? What state of emotions is your mom in? I would think there

are agencies that care put you and your family in protective care.

I worry about you. Stay safe from harm. x

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to Agora1]

I was staying with them but they think I should stay for Christmas and that I have to be there for my mother and all. My mom, I know she's upset and a bit regretful of the situation cause she keeps saying it's her mess that she created. My brother has been staying at my grandma's house, he's very reluctant to go home. Idk how much longer I got Agora

[Agora1 in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

I'm worried about you. Not only for your physical safety but your mental state

as well. You have been living with this fear hanging over you for too long.

This man needs to be taken off the streets, but I know it's not always that

clear cut.

I hope that you and your mother will be safe. Continue to use the forum

for some support and sanity to your life. You are in a bad position and I'm

truly sorry. Be vigilant of your surroundings. x

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to Agora1]

Thanks Agora, I'm really struggling right now. Hopefully things will work out. I'm leaving in the hands of God

[HeyItsThatKidd in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

Leaving things in the hands of God*

[Agora1 in reply to HeyItsThatKidd]

May He watch over both you and your mom. x