Adult kids stressing me

[Jae5]

New here. Need advice on adult children fighting eachother. Stress is thru the roof.

[hypercat54]

Hi yes stay out of it and don't get drawn into it. If they are arguing in your home then tell them firmly that they are out of order and to do it elsewhere. If it is not in your home then just firmly ask them to stop it otherwise you will leave. Don't you have that famous 'mummy stare'?

I hope this helps a bit. x

[Jae5 in reply to hypercat54]

Thank u for responding. They fist fought in my home. Now i have a black eye.forbidden to c my grandson cause i wont pick a side.

[fauxartist]

Oh yes.... the happy bliss of adult children.... you know what.... find yourself some nice holiday and happy music....get some ear buds and a MP3 player....put it in your pocket, and adjust the volume as needed.... let them work it out and you enjoy the music.

[Hidden]

I say stay out of it. I know all too well though, I have 4 grown kids..this one doesn't talk to that one, that one doesn't like this one & on & on. I wish for you peace! Love, light, joy & hugs!

[Jae5 in reply to Hidden]

Thank u! Thats what im doing staying out of it. Now they r both mad at me for not picking sides and i cant c my grandson but im sticking to it!!!

[Hidden in reply to Jae5]

They'll come around..wait you'll see. Love, peace, light, joy & hugs for you!

[Hidden]

Depending on what the problem is Sibling Rivalry can be very nasty

If you know what has caused the problem you can try and settle the situation especially at this time of year.

However if the problem is of their making let them get on with it. It is sad they do not get on this time of year

BOB

[Jae5 in reply to Hidden]

Sad to say they just both want me to take a side and i refuse to do it. On the up side until they come to their senses im off babysitting duty! Thanks for responding Happy holidays to you

[Hidden]

Jae 5

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you all

BOB