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So guys I need your opinion. There’s this guy and I need you to tell me whether you think I should be with him or not. He has cheated on me with multiple girls, he has flirted with girls in front of me, he makes accusations that aren’t true about me, he gets mad at me for no reason, and he talks about me behind my back 24/7, and plays with my feelings . But he also, gives me lots of presents, tells me he’s sorry, hugs me and makes me feel better, talks to me, makes me laugh, tells me he loves me, compliments me, asks me how my day was, takes lots of pictures with me, kisses me a lot. So what do y’all think ?

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Stilltrying_

It never fails to amaze me how masochistic some women are. If you really like being treated like dirt then just carry on with it. Do you really even need to ask this question? I guess the s** must be good? That can be the only logical reason for you making the question.

NO it isn't worth it and will end in tears my dear.

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DallyNicole in reply to Stilltrying_

Thanks

Uhhhhhh are you serious

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DallyNicole in reply to Indifferentlycalm

I just wanted to see what y’all would say about it. He ain’t getting me back. He got another thing coming if he thinks he’s getting me back. LOL

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kenster1

no matter how bad things get I would never cheat on my mrs.my advice to you is find a bin and stick him in it.

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DallyNicole in reply to kenster1

Thanks

I have learned the hard way....once a cheater...always a cheater. You can do better....there is someone out there who will cherish you. Dont settle for someone who doesnt.

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Rachelmale in reply to

You got it right Paris48.

Once a cheater always a cheater, not a gender thing, but a character thing.

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Absolutely. This applies to people of all genders. Unless they have some kind of transformative experience that allows them to change character.....but this is very rare.

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Thanks so much

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Marielle1

Run as fast as you can!!! He knows what he’s doing. He wants you to make the first move. He then compliments out of guilt. If you don’t leave now he Will in future.

Been there🙄

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DallyNicole in reply to Marielle1

Thanks so much

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APOR2017

DallyNicole, I am sorry that you feel this way and are being treated this way. I think your heart probably knows what is best for you. I pray that you can make the decisions you need in order to be safe and happy.

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