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Really just need a ear ....to clear my mind n make the right choice

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Am here listening 🙏🏻

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What are you to do when someone's deeply crazy in love with you and you no longer in love with them anymore

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That's a tough question. But I think you have to be honest. There is nothing to be gained by prolonging the inevitable.

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I've been nothing but honest n things I thought would hurt only pushed her to try to work harder n you 25 with no house car or kids n after 4hr of work a day u oh so fucking tired....I work 12hr shift I don't want to hear shit about u tired or how unhappy u are with your life I'm 22 n I've have and lost everything but I'm back n will be a proud midwife within a year

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Sounds like you're trying to get the message across.

Can I ask if you are living together?

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No ....I dont want her to live with me I can pay my own bills....and my job Is 3 min from my house and I'm not taking u back n forth to work nor am I allowing u to take my car.....u just got your license 3months again .....won't drive my car!...n I work 10-10pm or 10pmtil6am...I'm not being no uber when I'm supposed to be sleeping I work hard not 4 funky ass hour like u n swear u so tired

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All right then...if your not living together, block the calls and all social media.

If they persist, advise you will have to involve the authorities.

Just my advice...

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I once loved her it's not that easy she cries

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Nothing hurts worse than a broken heart...I know. I lost the best thing in my life last December and still miss her terribly.

But are you willing to continue leading her on. If you don't love her...why pretend so she stops crying?

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I tell her the truth about me not being happy not wanting her the whole nine n all she says is she's going continue to fight

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Like I'm not attracted to you anymore then u leave 6months n come back n think everything is going be fine while u was gone my heart was broke I'm not the same

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All I can say is if you let her fight for what she wants...you are giving her hope.

You need to be honest with yourself...

I'm not sure now if you are angry and hurt...or you want the relationship to be over.

Only you can answer that.

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We not together

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Ain't been together since she moved in April

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Then block the calls...the social media...and stop all contact.

You are working both sides of the fence.

You won't see her cry if you aren't in contact with her.

If you are going to give in to the tears...then you are giving in to everything.

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