i been doing better

[JAZZY_JAZZY]

if anyone needs advice dont be afraid to ask me for help

[SmilesLots]

Hi Jazzy,

Glad you're feeling better! So kind of you to offer to help. I've been in bed for days and need to get motivated. I don't even know how long it's been since I washed my hair Do you have adult children? My 27 year old only daughter/child has continued to be mean-spirited towards me for many years. I live alone with a chronic autoimmune disease and I'm lonely.

[JAZZY_JAZZY in reply to SmilesLots]

im to young to have children if u need to talk just text me im going to be on much more than i used to

[JAZZY_JAZZY in reply to JAZZY_JAZZY]

just think about something that gets u up in the mornings dont let anything stop you from doing what u want to do

[SmilesLots in reply to JAZZY_JAZZY]

Thanks Jazzy very kind of you!

[JEG325]

Mornin' JAZZY_JAZZY. I've been on her for a little less than 3 weeks. I try to help as many as possible. Sometimes I overdo it though. Now I'm an older person and you are much younger. I have been advised to not try to seek help from or give advice to younger people. What do you think about that? I want to help as many as I can but, that advice seems confusing. Your opinion would be helpful. Thank you for listening.

[Hidden in reply to JEG325]

I don’t agree with that statement about age at all! I think everyone can learn from someone!

I hate putting age on people/friends and I think it’s not nice to just ‘ignore’ someone on here especially just because you think they’re younger ... What if you’re that older/wiser presence that person needs in their life to save them and vice versa! I’m not sure how old you and and I don’t actually mind not knowing! I’m in my 20s and your word encouraged and helped me a lot! So don’t let others stop your kindness x

[JEG325 in reply to Hidden]

God, love you for that, my friend. And I do consder you my friend. I only got a few replies to this particular exchange and they were right along the lines you just spoke. Indeed, I will continue to help anyone I choose to, age notwithstanding. Olivia 40's words and your words combined are an inspiration to everyone out here. 20 kazillion warm, loving hugs for you too. We need all the kind, loving souls we can get out here. Your name says it all, beautiful person called Hope.

[JEG325]

Oh, no, I did it again. I wasn't referring to you hyercat54. Several of my non site friends had already warned me about that and I was wondering why. I love you and your advice and would never question it in such a krass, base way. Please forgive me for even implying it was you. I feel really bad. I thought just once I would ask a younger person and see what they thought. I must have had a dozen people tell me that over the last 3 weeks. Most of them face to face, personal friends. A hundred zillion apologies!!!!

[JAZZY_JAZZY in reply to JEG325]

guys if u want to ask me something text me on here

[JEG325 in reply to JAZZY_JAZZY]

I have a question here. I can't figure out a polite way to word it! The gist is about older people advising younger people whom they might be out of touch with. A dozen of my closer personal off ste friends, including my best personal friend, have advised me against it. Personally, I love and respect all people's advice, even critiism! (My personal friends are good at that too!) What do you think? Should we all try and share our commonalities or should we stay closer to our own age groups. It could be that my off site friends can't relate and they are missing the point completely. I am a bit perplexed here....

[JAZZY_JAZZY in reply to JEG325]

different people think different thing got to go going to my next class with my boyfriend

[JEG325 in reply to JAZZY_JAZZY]

You're certainly right. But, we can all work together for the common good of those who suffer like us. Have a beautiful day.

[Hidden in reply to JEG325]

Personally don’t like to put ages on things....we are all individual and can help people or chat to people of any age and vice versa, sometimes it’s just a few kind words, it doesn’t have to be deep, and kind words surely can come from any age group to any age group...on this forum we generally wouldn’t know ages as it usually isn’t listed.....I don’t like to be ageist ...but I love kindness ❤️

[JEG325 in reply to Hidden]

God, I love that reply, Olivia40! That's exactky what I told my best friend too!. 20 kazillion warm, loving hugs for being such a good person!

[Hidden in reply to JEG325]

Cheers jegs...

Hugs back ...

Xx

[JEG325 in reply to Hidden]

(((((((((((((((Hugs recieved....))))))))))))))

[Hidden]

Hi Jazzy,

Hope you are well today...

X

[Hidden]

Good on you! 😁👍

[JAZZY_JAZZY in reply to Hidden]

good