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it won't be the same after a heartbreak

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a year ago, maybe more, i went to the roof with my bff at night, i was spending the night with her and we had so much fun, the cold breeze, looking to the view and the stars, we didn't talk mush but it felt perfect.

we split apart because of some problems and now we're back talking to eachother, we both changed alot.. few days ago, i went to spent the night there, we went to the roof.. i felt NOTHING.. just the though of jumping from there.. i won't do it don't worry but yea at that moment i knew that things will never be the same again.. no matter how much we're gonna talk or sing or whatever we do, something will always feel missing and i guess i have to accept that and move on.

in the other hand, i always though that split had to happen so we can grew apart and do things we wouldn't do if we were together.

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Hi,

Whatever happens, don’t loose hope. Today you may not feel like things will change for the better. But it will. Time heals everything. We must move on and always look forward. Just because we feel down today doesn’t mean it will be the same way always. Sometimes when we think we are not enjoying something or someone it could just merely be because we grew out of it. Maybe what you guys need is a fresh start. A fresh outlook on life. Do things you haven’t done before. Do something new and different and see how that works.

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ang95 in reply to Laez

Thank you for the support ♥

that actually make sense, i will try that and i will suggest doing something new maybe things will work out better than before

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Laez in reply to ang95

I wish you all the best

Dont give up on this friendship, it might take time but could be worth it in the end. Maybe things won't be how they used to be but you still have someone who is a friend to you and that alone is very special.

Dont expect things to be like they used to be and you won't be disappointed just enjoy the company and companionship that this person brings to you.

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