I hate it when people misuse y...

[eaglelee257]

I hate it when people misuse you, without thinking of what they're doing... just because you are who you are... it gives me anxiety, makes me angry and frustrated and at the same time sad.

[strongmom15]

Hi Eaglelee, sounds like you are going through a hard time right now. Do you want to share some more about it? If you’re not comfortable posting public you can DM me too. From your post, all I can say is no one should be using you at all. People that surround you should care for you and not be trying to use you. That’s an awful thing if you are experiencing it. If someone is using you, it might be a good time to decide if that relationship is healthy or not. Maybe you need to create some boundaries with that person to be able to live a healthier life for yourself. Don’t let someone else’s bad choices and treatment of you determine who you are. You deserve to be treated with respect no matter who this person is.

[eaglelee257 in reply to strongmom15]

Thank you, I agree, it is about respect... but one superior tells me to do something and another superior tells me to do something else. Both things are equally important. I only have limited time.

[strongmom15 in reply to eaglelee257]

Oh, it’s work related. Yeah that can be totally frustrating. Have you considered looking for a different job in your field?

[eaglelee257 in reply to strongmom15]

To move to a different department is difficult for me, for many reasons. I just learn out of these situations, usually when I am calmer first.