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So I was in an abusive relationship for about 10 years. I found someone who is such an amazing person I can’t thank him enough for everything he does for me and my kids. But why am I not happy?? Why can’t I be ok? I get mad for everything. I cant show him love, when he deserves the world. He takes care of my kids like if they were his. He cooks for us he does everything for us, but why can’t I be ok?? Why can’t I move on and be happy?? Why does it feel like I am the bad person??

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you got out of a long abusive relationship, maybe you’re unconsciously waiting for the other shoe to drop and find out he’ll be the same as the last guy. you could always talk to him if you feel it’s an issue.

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The mind try to protect ourselves from the harm we once experienced. And sometimes the mind can get absurdly misguided..

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