The worse part of it

[Darknlovely504]

Is when your family your blood the ones you helped or took care of don't care about u or your well being no calls to see if u are ok and when u need them they ignore u or have an attitude but would jump for others.

[Trying2MakeItDay2Day]

I understand exactly what u mean my spouse is in the mental health field, and it pains me to see him have a solution for everybody and their momma but me nada i gotta man up or its crickets radio silent. We married so he's supposedly closer than blood considering how far away my actual blood family lives from me.

[Darknlovely504 in reply to Trying2MakeItDay2Day]

People are colder and meaner now towards family and friends they are more selfish than ever. Find help elsewhere because he will not give it. The proper help should come from a person who don't know u

[Trying2MakeItDay2Day in reply to Darknlovely504]

So true i feel like i give far more than i get especially with my husband i constantly put his mental health above and before my own and when the occasion arises that i need that support reciprocated he's to busy or consumed with self to acknowledge or notice that something is going on or he just stacks another brick for me to balance. Your absolutely right that's what led me here today after another day of contemplating suicide and nearly following through

[Darknlovely504 in reply to Trying2MakeItDay2Day]

We give to much of ourselves to others and neglect our own needs.Then when we need them we're are invisible like I said outside help is better. Groups, hobbies, herbs, yoga, painting walks exercise church etc can help some people cope

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Depending on others for comfort, understanding and support just leads to disappointment. I have let go of that need and rely on my higher power and myself for happiness. Don’t expect others to call and check up on you because they won’t. They are moving on with their lives as should you. Let it go and depend on yourself! Wishing you peace! 🌷🙂🌷

[legallystressed]

So true. When I got sick my family was the first ones to blame me and exile me and make things a million times worse. Unfortunately hard times reveal character

[Darknlovely504 in reply to legallystressed]

Same here I'm on my own

[Everclear40 in reply to Darknlovely504]

You have a lot of living to do. Learn how to be selfish and put you first. I learned to treat others the way they treated me. If you're not their for me than I'm not there for you. It was a load of my shoulders. Its hard at first but people start changing their behavior real quick.