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The nicest people seem to suffer the most.

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Hello beautiful people. Every darn day I feel sick every day feels like I have to fight to stay alive because of my mental and physical ailments. I'm so tired and worn out, weary etc nothing helps nothing

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sandphoenix80

I feel the same your not alone

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Darknlovely504 in reply to sandphoenix80

Hi, I hope we get better

Hello there friend, I just want you to know that we are here for you and you aren't alone. Your day will get better and the good time will comes back again. Best of luck and stay strong :).

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Darknlovely504 in reply to zevietnameseguy98

Hello and thank u. I hope so

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IheartDogs

You sound very tired and rightfully so because you fight hard! But even the best fighters get tired and deserve a break. Maybe you can give yourself a break so you can recharge and regain your strength again. We have faith in you and know that you have the ability to keep fighting. Sometimes being a fighter is what it is. And nothing may be working right now but you can find something else that works, there are so many alternatives but it might take a little more time. What has helped you before?

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Darknlovely504 in reply to IheartDogs

Hi, the only reason why I fight is because I have 3 kids in school still. I do it for them but I'm tired I don't feel good most of the time. It hinders me I need a job but I'm sick I can't keep living like this

You are not alone..you are a beautiful soul..you are right..it happens to the nicest people..and the strongest..we are here for you..

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Darknlovely504 in reply to

Thanks hunn

I completely understand where you’re coming from...I feel sick and tired today as well. I’m hoping that after some more rest, I will begin to feel better. I remain hopeful 🌷🌞🌷

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Hi I wish u the best as well get better soon we both need to

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Wowie132

Stay strong, I know its hard but this program was started for a reason and we are all here to help! Keep fighting and dont forget to take a breather when things get overwhelming. I like to use breathing squares to calm down my own issues. You breathe in for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts and breathe out for 4 counts. This helps you focus the breathing and helps to calm your nerves. It helps me so hopefully it can hell you in some way!

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fauxartist

I know....it does feel like that for a lot of us....and I'm sorry your going through this. Bad things happen to good people...and there is absolutely no reason for it. Some are too nice and become victims to some con. Some are just in the wrong place at the wrong time. But the most important thing to believe is....none of this is your fault. you are just now at a place of feeling sad and not seeing a solution to your current situation.

Are you in therapy? or on meds?.... if you can't afford either it does not mean you cannot find alternative help. It's good your sharing here...and you can write about all the stuff that's going on and we will listen...and if you want advice....we are just other members like you who may have founds ways we are dealing with our stuff that could possibly be an idea for you to try...or not. We just share and take what we need and leave the rest.

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