I messaged my ex telling him that what was once his cat (now my family's) had passed away suddenly because I though he should know, and because I'm an idiot like that.
He replied with "I want the collar and name tags, it's only right" and when I denied him that, it went downhill from there.
He ended it with I ruined HIS life, drained him of all his finances and that he was in debt because I chose to go to school and ultimately because of me, despite the fact that HE was stealing from our friends and my family (money or material possessions) to get cocaine.
He proceeded to rub it in my face that he now has a life no thanks to me and that he'll be off to LA due to an apparent "record deal" and moving into his first house with his first car.
He always had a talent for making me feel like nothing to the point where I know believe it. He abused me in a variety of ways (mentally, emotionally, physically, etc.) LOVED playing victim and blaming everyone for all his problems, etc.
Why do bad people get these kind of advantages and good people suffer? I don't understand...
Stuck
Slowly losing faith again…
Tension headaches 
"don't do it" 
