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Holidays still make me somber

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How can I put a smile on your face...that's what i want for you!!! Love & Hugs!!!

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Chihuhahua puppies never fail to make me smile! I just love them and have two myself x

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Marielle1

You just did!! Thanks for caring hugs back to you xoxo

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Well that is wonderful! Makes me very happy for you! I'm here for you! Love & Hugs!!! XXX

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I’m right there with you!! Sending much love & hugs to you🤗xoxoxo

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Marielle1 in reply to SA192461

Thanks hope you’re doing better good wishes for you!! Lots of hugs xoxo🙃

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Thanks I am... My days are still up and down. Hope you’re doing better too!! xoxoxo 😊

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Same

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Angelfox2002

I have the same issue, holidays are definitely not fun for me and I think it’s the pressure to celebrate that really brings me down. If I can’t be happy enough to celebrate my own birthday, how can I be forced to enjoy fireworks and festivals in 100 degree humidity to celebrate my country’s birthday. Christmas is a whole different ball game... why can’t I just be happy, “tis the season”. I wish you happiness and hope you can make it out to enjoy the American Dream, believe in yourself and celebrate your happiness!

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I'm so sorry holidays are rough on you. I get it though...29 years ago my mom passed the day after Christmas..very bitter sweet! If I can help you in any way just let me know. I'm here for you!!! Love & Hugs for you! XXX

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Yes similar happen to me with my dad

This time of the year thanks😇

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We will be reunited one day! Hope will grow if you believe! Any time you need to chat I'm here for you! Love & Hugs! XXX

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Oh my goodness I’m so sorry to hear that, my dad passed in 2014 and I haven’t been normal ever since. I’m trying to overcome my own situation and I’m not sure I’m gonna to make it through this one. I feel bad for offering my depressed advice to someone who needs to hear positivity.

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Marielle1 in reply to Angelfox2002

I never got over my father‘s death as time passed I remember the good things and the funny things that he said and did. I just have a hard time when it’s his anniversary I miss him

He was my support and always covered my back 😪 be strong? You have to be just like I do i’m here whenever you need me lots of hugs

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Angelfox2002 in reply to Marielle1

Omg that’s exactly how I feel. He was my cheerleader 📣 always daddy’s little girl 💞✨

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No one ever gets up in the morning & says it's a good day to say goodby to my loved one! It happens though. Everyone's grief is different...it took me 10 years to get over losing my mom. It takes time...give yourself that time to heal & be gentle with yourself! I'm here for you!!! Love & Hugs!!!

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I don’t know if I’ll ever heal I don’t like being an orphan to me holidays represent family celebration don’t have that thanks for your support

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I'm one too! You're right family is about the holidays ....somehow we must make the best of it...that's what they would want us to do! PM me if you'd like! Love & Hugs!!!! XXX

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Marielle1 in reply to Angelfox2002

I love what you said “ believe in yourself and celebrate your happiness “ thanks for

Your support 🤔🙃

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Angelfox2002 in reply to Marielle1

I’m so glad you found the positive in my comment, re-reading that made me feel like a negative person 😂 im just lost.

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Marielle1 in reply to Angelfox2002

We have choices make it positive

I’m here for you whenever you want 👀

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Angelfox2002 in reply to Marielle1

Thank you! I’m so glad people are so kind to each other on here. I feel like I can reach out to people who are in the same situation but still care about each other and that’s one rare but awesome find!

I don't think you'll ever enjoy a holiday if you feel pressurised. I totally understand x

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