Infant loss support

[mhunnell19]

About 3 weeks ago, I miscarried my child with my ex boyfriend. Has anyone experienced this and like to share their experiences and what helped them?

[HearYou]

Yes. You grieve. You won't ever forget, but gets better, Rather talk on pm for privacy.

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I am so sorry for your loss.... I can not even imagine what you are going through. **Hugs**

[Annairb]

It’s going to be hard at first but with time you heal,this happened to my sister a month ago but it wasn’t a miscarriage my niece was a stillborn at 8 months my sister is taking it hard we all are but what’s kinda been helping her is too talk or write it done in a journal

[Agdgrl]

My first time of getting pregnant was a disaster. I was with a boyfriend who was doing drugs behind my back (I didn't find out until later). The stress of being "temporarily living with relatives" for too long caused me to miscarry at 7 weeks. The depression that followed almost killed me. Then, I almost killed my boyfriend when he cheated on me after the whole thing with some cheap skank. I hope you don't have to deal with that.

I delt with horrible loss depression and anxiety as to whether I could have done anything about it. I think some women's body's just accidentally misfire and don't want to complete a mess up. My other children seem perfectly fine. I have 3 wonderfully healthy and smart kids.

[MommyBro]

i went through miscarriages, but "luckily" it happened pretty early in the pregnancies (3 times). I also have 3 healthy children now. I don't think about it all the time now, but I never forget my 3 children in heaven. Some people are able to be empathetic and supportive, but others just don't get it. When my sister-in-law had a miscarriage, my sisters (who hadn't had children yet) couldn't understand why she couldn't just "get over it already, she'll still be able to have other children." If you can find someone who can be supportive and just listen or just be with you, that would be great. God bless all the people who are doing that for their loved ones now. There are many women/couples who have suffered through this and are all around you, but you just don't know because traditionally people just don't talk about this.I wonder if your OB-GYN or someone like that could hook you up with a support group or something like that. God bless you, and I hope you feel more comforted soon.