I have been dealing with anxiety and depression for a little over 20+ years. Here's the situation that happened, and it's not just from my point of view. Today a person came to my house unannounced. Now mind you, I HATE when people just pop up over your house. So I was in the middle of working on a project when she came by. Okay first thing, I got a phone call and a text from the person, but I was working on my project at the time and did not know who it was. So I did not answer my phone because I was working on my project. Next thing I know there was my doorbell ringing. I had my back to the window so I did not see who passed by it. I was still working on my project. I thought it was UPS delivering a package at first because I had ordered something, but I know the expected date was later than today. So I thought they had sent it earlier. My daughter gets up and looks out the peep hole. She then says, "it's so and so!" I told her not to answer the door because that person had not called me before popping up. Mind you she actually did call before coming, but remember I had no knowledge that she had called because I never answered my phone or saw a text. My phone was in the room next to where I was. So a few minutes later my husband called me asking if someone had been over to the house? I told him he already knew the answer to his own question. I didn't understand why he was acting like he had no foreknowledge about someone coming over. As if I was not going to tell the truth or something. That pissed me off because I already knew that he knew someone came over. So then he goes on to say that this person came over just because they were concerned about me and wanted to see how I was doing. That he had known the day before that she was coming by. I felt like it would have been nice to have gotten the heads up first. So then his story changed and he said he didn't know that she would be coming over that she told him that she would be calling me instead. So I felt like they were trying to set me up by doing some sneaky stuff. Mind you i have seen them actually do this to someone else before me. So I felt like they were doing the same to me. I had already been telling people, including my husband, to leave me alone because I'm trying to figure out things on my own. Those things were just part of my life. Things I wanted and didn't want. Just basically my life choices. So this blow up even more to the point I start cussing husband out. For one he kept making it seem like I was wrong for not answering the door and two for not calling/texting her back. Now remember I still had no knowledge at the time that she had even called or texted, so we got into a huge argument this time. I still to this point want to leave because we had already had been arguing about my anxiety and depression how he does not understand how it feels having it. So this was the last straw. I am tired of always having to explain everything I do and everything that I say or don't say to him and anyone else. I want to get my own place and be through with this marriage. I am very very tired of it. First question was I wrong second is should I stay?