Please help me.

[erinn]

I've been cheated on and lied to. Also been harassed & bullied. Please help me.

[Ilovesprouts]

I'm sorry to hear that erinn, what's happened xxx

[erinn in reply to Ilovesprouts]

Just a long story. Very upset and hurting. I did do a report on Facebook.

[Ilovesprouts in reply to erinn]

That's good, do you have a support system around you, friends and family you can spend time with, give yourself time to process and think logically about your next step and what you are going to do. Be kind to yourself, get plenty of sleep, eat well and exercise, what do you enjoy that will take your mind off the situation and let you be calm xxxx lots of love

[erinn in reply to Ilovesprouts]

No I don't really have a support team. I'm feeling depressed. Is there a support group for being harassed & being bullied?

[Ilovesprouts in reply to erinn]

I'm not sure, if you are on Facebook there is a group called p girls which is a supportive girls only group I'm in

[erinn in reply to Ilovesprouts]

Ok thanks. I feel alone.

[fauxartist in reply to erinn]

erinn your not alone, and I'm terribly sorry your going through this painful time and it's not fair....7 out of 10 young people, I think it's more, get bullied at some time in their school years. It's appalling that there is really nothing to help you in the schools. It's one of the number one reasons there are so many problems with our young people today. They have no support.

My partner and I did a lot of research about this subject because one of our girls was ruthlessly bullied for the last years of her HS. Every country has different on-line groups many of the sites are put up backed by real kids who are going through this hell. But it should apply anywhere. Can you share a bit more detail, I'm sorry I do do Facebook or I would read you post there, and if you want me to give you the sites. They may help to give you some ways to cope with this,

But for now, your not alone here, many of us had suffered at the hands and mouths of bullies....they are kind people hear, very nice.

[erinn in reply to fauxartist]

I did report them. He's blocked. But his girlfriend messaged me. Which isn't really nice.

[fauxartist in reply to erinn]

block her too if you can....that's the good and the bad thing about internet. You do get unwanted intrusions.....but that's why the 'delete' function is there thank god. Nobody deserves or did anything to get bullied. But for some reason these cowards seem to get some sick thrill to try and make their miserable lives a bit better by trying to bring someone else down. It's easy to say, just don't talk to them or avoid them, but when your going through the bulling, sometimes they are unavoidable. It's terrible and painful. I'm sorry your going through that. But there are other people here and at some of these on-line sites that may be able to give you some coping skills...at least you can safely share here too.