I posted awhile back about learning to adapt to the role of a father, and having to be more of a provider.
I'm still struggling with the guilt of wanting to be selfish. I never seem to have enough "me" time and when I do get it I usually follow it with a sense of guilt that I've wasted time I should be spending with my family.
I'm talking about things like choosing to stay home rather than go along with my wife and son to the grocery store, or playing video games in another room rather than watch cartoons.
I just want to feel like a whole person, but "growing up" into the role of parent is making for a very difficult shift.