I am a nanny for twin seven year olds. I am going through a bad time right now with my anxiety and depression. I have a short fuse and no patience. I’ve signed up for a parenting class called positive parenting solutions that’s supposed to help you parent without yelling. I haven’t started it yet because I am consumed with excuses and roadblocks in my mind. I don’t care about my work. Everything is slipping. Forgetting to do stuff. Not giving them quality care. Yelling at them. Talking about quitting right in front of them.
My boss is another story altogether. She talks down to me all the time. But then she does something really great like paying to have my apartment cleansed because my husband is about to have surgery. I can’t figure out if she’s a good person or a narcisist or what. That gives me a TON of anxiety. Is she my friend? Does she lie to me? Does she complain about me to people? Does she genuinely think of me as part of her family? I never know for sure.
The kids can be the sweetest. But they’re kids. So they don’t listen or they are disrespectful. They lie which drives me nuts and hurts my feelings. I don’t understand it. Like, one of them was supposed to be cleaning her room and I caught her putting dirty socks in a drawer instead of the hamper. She insisted that she was taking them out of the drawer which I know is not true. Am I crazy for being bothered that she lied? Does that even count as a lie?
I don’t know what to do. I can’t talk to my husband because he is about to have life changing surgery and I can’t bother him with this. But I am constantly on the verge of tears. Please help me.
Sorry for any typos. I am not rereading this, which is really not like me. I am so off and about to cry in Starbucks but I have to go back to work.