Serves me right

[Whatsthepoint]

So my husband was being shifty about his messages so I looked (I know,bad move) and it's full of messages from him to others saying I never cook/clean or do anything, I cook and clean everyday he has a hot meal waiting on the table at 5 when he gets in.(if he bothers to come home) I clean the whole time, I spent most of my free time ironing his clothes only for him to not put them away (he's a grown man I'm not doing it for him, and if I do "it's wrong") and leave them in a huge pile on the floor which then in turn, turns damp and has to be rewashed. I work 2 jobs as well. (One through the day whilest little one is a school and one at nights when she's in bed (8hrs roughly a day)

But what annoys me the most is that it's my family and friends agreeing with him that I'm lazy and they know what I'm like.... I honestly never stop. It's no wonder I feel like sh!t! I asked him about it (I said one of them had told me about him saying it) and he said it's all "bo***cks" he would never have said anything like that he knows I'm busy...... vent vent vent rant rant rant!

[mysmugcat]

Bless you. That must be really hurtful.

[Whatsthepoint in reply to mysmugcat]

Beyond belief, now I have no one I feel I can talk to, completely alone, including my husband.

What do I do now? We live in a tiny place where everyone knows everyone....

my so call best friend was involved now I just have my work which I don't talk to anyone there as it's work, just me alone with my recurring thoughts of hanging myself. But can't do that as my little one may and only may miss me. As husband even has her believe if that "mums lazy, fat and can't cook" which is nice to here from your own child who repeats it at school and the teachers just think that's what is going on at home.

[km147]

I am sorry that must be so difficult. Don't let him bring you down. Keep taking care of yourself and your child. Stay headstrong. The truth will come out and you'll develop thicker skin in the process.

[Justswimming]

Focus on your child and taking care of yourself., stop ironing his clothes...take care of yourself.. Exercise, do something with a friend, call that friend out on the text, are you getting help w depression?

[Hidden]

I would show him the texts and sit down calmly with a death stare waiting for him to explain. Not only he lied he's not appreciative of your strength and care 😒. U work 2 jobs and that itself is exhausting keep your head up hun some people don't know how to appreciate amazing women like yourself 🌻🌻