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[Jjoyelle]

You ever started to feel like everything people would say about you are true? You ever had family look at you and tell you nothing is wrong? You ever done all that you can to please people and they just look at the negatives and has nothing positive to say to you?

[2knowme]

Yes! Yes! & Yes!...Do you remember when you could care less what people (including your family) thought about you?!!! I can relate and understand exactly what you are saying... It's time for you to put the focus on YOU! Yes, it will look a little selfish but guess what???? Your emotional and mental health is at stake here! You 1st!

[Jjoyelle in reply to 2knowme]

You sound just like my friend. As much as I wanna focus on "ME", I get sidetracked and wanna help others. My health is very important to me, but sat sometimes I really don't care

[2knowme in reply to Jjoyelle]

Helping others is very noble but if you're down from neglecting yourself, you can't help anyone! Trust me...I am almost 59 yrs young and the first half of my life I took care of everyone else! The last 3 yrs, I have been focusing on me! Don't you take that long to wake up! Lol

[Hidden]

I can relate my family try to convince me that my health issues and pain are in my head constantly even when they're shown medical evidence I too have did everything for them and it's got me nowhere