I am fairly new here. I wrote one post so far. I am having a problem at work and I just can't stop crying about it. I have been working there for about 18 1/2 years. I started out part time, but 7 years ago they hired me to go full time and be the office manager. For some reason unexplained to me, when it was time to start my new position they decided to dissolve that position and make us all coworkers with a supervisor at the home ocfice--not where we worked. I had a hard time dealing with this but in time was able to accept it. Now, they surprisingly promoted a girl who has only been there for not quite a year to be "in charge" of the rest of us. (again just no prior indication of what they were doing) This is a girl who does't know all the ways of the office,, whom I have helped every day with her repeated questions on how to do things , etc. I feel like I 've been screwed over for a second time. She is telling us to do things that we already do and know and expects us to hop up and do what she says. I am finding it hard to keep my composure and just keep on crying, trying to hide it from everyone at work. But I am so hurt that I just can't stop. I thought of quiting, but I need the money and insurance. Can anyone help me to feel better about the situation? I thought about talking to my superiors, but am afraid I'd just start crying and make a fool of myself.