Hi there,My 6 year old is recently diagnosed with ADHD after a year old erratic, abusive behavior. He abuses me, his siblings, his teacher and his para. He swears constantly, calls me names, hits, kicks, bites, spits, throws and breaks things. His father and I seperated a year ago which really causes a uptick in his behavior but he doesn't act this way with his father and I have no idea why. He has seriously injured me, and has tried to harm his other siblings who are both nonverbal autistic and verbally abuses his older sister. He has made our home a terrifying place to be. Even though he small he inflicts some serious abuse and we are all on eggshells waiting for his next meltdown.
He shows empathy after he calms down, apologizes, and communicates well, but it is like there is no way to stop him when he starts.
I feel so alone since his father is no supportive and tells me I don't do enough, but nothing I do works. I am waiting for his doctor to prescribe his medication but I am so exhausted physically and emotionally and am constantly in fear around him that it is becoming traumatic for me and his siblings. I try to stay calm and I always let him know he is loved no matter what, but I am so burnt out. I love my son so much but I am so sick of being abused physically and verbally.
Any support or advice would be so helpful.