So...when I turned this child predator/known abuser in my familys life was turned upside down and shreded to pieces. The law got involved...and it was all nine yards. There were social workers visiting homes, couple of people got harrassed at their jobs, a gun involved, restraining orders, court dates,...everythg. There are members of the family that still dont speak to each other....cousins who dont even know each other. Its been 4 years.... All because I made the call....but never admitted to doing so.
I never admitted to making the fone call because I was afraid for my own kids.
In the end....he got away....he made himself out to be the victim OF false accusations...and his wife and kids backed him up out of fear. They are totally brain-washed and cannot help in the matter. Sadly he is free....still doing things to children that he shoukd be persecuted for. I have no proof of him doin anything in the past....just relatives that has admitted to me of their encounter with him as children.
Just about 2 weeks ago through social (facebook) I came to find out that there is a new child in the home...a little boy about 2 - 3 yrs old being cared for by the daughter of the abuser. Its a baby-sitting job and she is getting paid to keep the toddler for most of the day.
If I speak up...things will get crazy again in my family. I am far away...a whole other continent away....but I keep thinking of the awful things happening to the baby. Ive lost so much sleep over this... Can anyone see a resolution to this without disrupting or endangering my family? I want to warn the mother..of the child...but Im afraid of the consequences my family will face. This is my mom, 2 sisters, brother and their families. I believe that he is capable of murder. Im not being over emotional or dramatic...If he can get a gun, go to my brothers house and make a threat...I believe with his temper problem...he could carry out that threat.
Do I just come clean with him and let him know Im making the call....so he wont go after the rest of my family? Our time overseas is almost up and we will be returning to the United States soon....in approx 3 months. Also, he can warn the mother and with his charming ways and lies manipulate the situation. There's got to be a way out without the drama.