Contraception

[Jblee6]

I have struggled to find the best method in contraception. I had the implant but it just didn't agree with my body, periods started to be around 3 weeks. I then went no the mini pill, which same thing happened. They then switched to combined and my moods became so low. My sex drive was non existant. 4 weeks off that pill and I feel so different, happy. Now I'm stuck on what method could be best. Condoms are risky, I have 3 children, I don't want anymore, yet😳. Is there any advice

[moo196]

A lot of contraception will have these sorts of effects sadly.

Are you able to discuss with your partner - it may be worth considering a vasectomy for him.

Libido can change with age and having 3 children will be a factor probably too.

Good luck

[wobblybee Administrator Pioneer]

🤔 It could be worth looking at previous discussions re contraception, something might be mentioned that you haven’t considered.

In the searchbox (top right) type contraception to see links

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Moo196 made the best suggestion-speak to your partner-if you have completed your family, there is no good reason (other than his vanity) he shouldn't have a vasectomy-these days it's straightforward and quick. I've never understood why it should be the female who gets all the drugs so men can be 'manly' !

[backintime]

I had a copper IUD for years between my second and third child and then again after my 3rd child. I never had any problems. It's hormone free and just for contraception. I decided to avoid hormonal contraception after just feeling blech on the pill. I would have another if I needed contraception on a regular basis again.