Im a mother of 3 soon to be 4
My youngest was born Via emergancy C-section 5 years ago
It was in my eyes a very traumatic frightening experience which i still feel bad about
Now im pregnant with my 4th and after speaking with the consultant i was told
During my emerg section i had a large tear down from the insision in which a second surgen had to be brough in to repair (i was never told about this at the time or afterwards) I found this out a day ago,
My comsultant has said that the surgen had left a note on my file stating im able to Go for either a VBAC or a planned c-section in any following pregnancys
Although the consultant is disagreeing this and stating i should not attempt a vbac she is going to consult with the surgen and give me options in around 6weeks π«
Im really worried about both options now as both come with risks rupture ect but a c-section is something that completely terrifies me both the surgery process and the recovery of not being fully able to care for my children afterwards
Has anyone been in a simular situation and have any advice or willing to share their experience, tips ect π