Hi Rogloc and welcome to this amazing forum. I could have written your post, especially the bit about portion sizes. I can't exercise hard enough to burn enough calories for weight loss, my exercise is mainly walking my small dog. I've cut down obvious carbs, pasta, bread and potatoes and I limit my alcohol. At the moment I've managed to lose a little every week. Here's a link which you may find interesting.
I strongly suggest you read and contribute to the Daily Diary and participate in a Weekly Weigh in. We also have a Drinkless Club where we support each other .
You will find there's loads of tips about better eating, from other members. Sharing your daily menu not only helps you stay committed, it can help other members too.
"broadly healthy" covers a multitude of sins. It all depends on what you consider healthy. It is not how much you eat that affect weight but what you eat,also what type of excersise you're doing.
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