It's almost three months since my RP surgery in September. and to date my urologist has said nothing about post surgery treatment except "we will see." My PCP doesn't know what the next steps should be or what treatment plan should be in place. this is most frustrating.
Its also frustrating because I am reading that many members of our community are having erections (semi-hard) two to three weeks post surgery. I am not sure why unless its because of the type of surgery performed (cyber-knife, robotic etc).
Not only am i not experiencing any kind of erections I don't even have a sex drive at the moment, which could seriously endanger my relationship of 11 years. He wants to and sex is the further thing from my mind, partly because i can't perform and I don't have a desire for it (totally not me). I don't even have the drive to masturbate, for "medical reasons" to keep the muscle working.
The only thing that has let up has been the uncontrollable urinating. Exercising and kegels are helping but i will admit at a slower pace than I would have preferred.
Any non-depressing advice for an active man with the blues. if not i may have to runaway to monastery to live out my days. (That last sentence was a joke!)
Man with the blues!