I'm single, but would be open to a relationship. Sex is, of course, part of most good relationships. To date, I've been more of a top than a bottom. I'm (likely) having surgery in 6 weeks. While I'm hopeful that I will have a positive sex life in the future, I'm a realist and understand the next 6-36 months will be a period of change and discovery.
Not because of looks or personality (I like myself well enough), but because of my upcoming surgery am I destine to be forever single? If I am, is that a bad thing?
Clearly I understand I'm very lucky that the surgery will likely cure me of cancer and that is my top priority.