Hello, I am 1 year into having chronic pelvic pain and wanted to share a resource which I have found particularly useful. It's a physio practice in San Francisco. They have a post which is about flare ups which I have come back to many times, it's so easy to forget the tools in it, but very useful and calming to read them Summary:
Tell yourself it's just a flare up - it doesn't mean you won't get back on your road to recovery
Remember what helped last time, be that ice packs, TENS machine, hot bath, change of meds
Go easy on yourself and give yourself permission to take a break and relax even if it means letting people down